stuck in a land of high school drama
arg. frustrated. i need a date to band banquet. well actually i just want one. and contrary to contemporary beliefs it is not because i am insecure and need to have someone there. i just want someone who knows how to dance that i can dance with. that is the only qualification!! i love dancing. so much fun. great form of expression. ugh. i dont think guys get it. hello. we're seniors. we're all going to college next fall. we're not about to embark on some huge romance commitment thing...unless you're already dating someone and taking them to this. thats different. im talking about taking someone as your date to a dinner/dance event. casual. fun. no commitment! friends. nothing more. why do people not get this? why are some people so immature and think that this sort of thing is serious and stuff? i mean, yes we're in high school, we're supposed to elevate the trivial and obsess over little things. and i know it takes a certain level of maturity to view this sort of thing in an adult way. but i mean come on. how is it that no one seems to understand that band banquet is not a big deal? you should go with someone you feel comfortable with. i know im harping on band banquet but this goes beyond this formal event. prom. homecoming. everything!! good freaking god people. grow up! learn how to have a freaking adult relationship (in a friends way, not sexual). guys, you're just a girls escort for an evening. girls, you're just a guy's date. GROW UP! get off this "oh but i dont like [him or her] like that". it doesn't matter!!! take a friend, have fun, and get over yourselves! and single guys, there are girls out there without escorts. ask them. they'll say yes because they want a date. guys without dates who are asked by girls: please. like you've got someone better in mind? be nice. say yes. it takes a lot of courage for a girl to ask a guy even if it is as friends because of society and whatnot. well i say damn society! girls ask the guys! guys, stop being such wimp asses and ask the girls! everyone: grow up and stop making such a big freaking deal out of these things. geez.
posted by kellyisdelightful @ 9:46 PM
3 Comments:
Oh, I agree completely. It makes me laugh...if I wanted to go with someone I had romantic feelings for Prom, I definitely wouldn't have had a date. Chris was my first choice from the beginning but my mom got pissed so I didn't ask him. Although I was fully planning on it. I'm really looking forward to dancing with Chris and all the other guys we chill with that night.
And I need a date, too. Maybe I'll ask Chris. :-)
Hey, you gotta cheer up about this thing...remember, David can be (I only say can be because you're friends with him...to me this is an 'is') a jackass. Duh. We'll find you a booty call for that night. :-)
wow pam, aren;t we blunt...by the way i wasn't talking about david but i think we've already talked about this...just thought i should clear it up so that every person who reads this doesn't think this post was about him because it wasn't...yet another prime example of how our words can be taken out of context online
Post a Comment
<< Home